Before you retire in Mexico, read this humorous, practical e-book.
Welcome to Mexico Vistas
Mexico Article
This is a selection made from among articles on Mexico. For a permanent link to this article, or to bookmark it for future reading, click here.
Retire in Mexico and Every Day is Opposite Day: 2 Cultural Differences in Daily Communication
from: Julia Taylor"Yes" means "no." "Now" means "later."
My English student came by at the time of her lesson and
pronounced this carefully rehearsed question: "Will you give me
30 minutes?" I wasn't completely sure that she meant she needed
30 more minutes until the class started or that maybe she meant
she could only stay for 30 minutes.
"Do you want to have class now?" I asked, trying to clarify the
situation while still using English.
"Yes, now," she replied.
"Ok. Come on over," I gestured to my door.
"I have to eat first."
Do you get it? Why did she say "now" when she really meant 30
minutes later? When you first live or retire in Mexico, you
might be confused by this. After 4 years here, I got it right
away.
In Spanish, when someone says "ahorita" they actually mean "in a
bit." My student was using an English word to express a Mexican
cultural concept.
"In English now means right away, like in 30 seconds," I told
her, snapping my fingers to illustrate the point.
Of course this happens to us north Americans when we are
speaking Spanish. Forget whatever impressions you may have left
over from your high school Spanish class. Cultural differences
define the ways things are expressed in Spanish. If someone
tells you they will do something "ahorita" don't hold your
breath. It may take them a few hours to do it.
Another great opposite is "yes" means "no."
"No" is a taboo phrase, and is therefore rarely used in Mexico.
Instead people just say "yes," albeit more vaguely.
"How can this be?" you ask. Let me tell you, it can be a real
shocker when you first live or retire in Mexico. The real damage
comes in when you, as a person from a country where "no" is an
acceptable response, use the poisonous little word. I've flubbed
up on this one many a time and, let me tell you, people's faces
fall. They feel terrible when you tell them "no."
If you want to say "no" STOP YOURSELF. Try to say "yes" first,
then add something that keeps things very vague. If saying "yes"
feels too much like you will have to follow through on the "yes"
then just give lots of excuses, say "thank you" over and over
and leave the "no" out.
At first you will probably feel like you are lying, but if you
KNOW HOW TO 'NO' it will be much more comfortable for you. When
interacting with others tune in to when they are being vague and
take note of the hedge words they use. By observing others you
can build a "no saying" dictionary that will allow you to
maintain good relationships with friends and acquaintances.--jt
About the author:
Julia Taylor has been living in Mexico for 4 years as an
American expat. She shares her extensive cultural knowledge with
those who want to live or retire in Mexico. Visit her website at
http://www.home-sweet-mexico.com to learn more about cultural
differences, safety, making friends, setting up a home, getting
around, and much more.
 |
 |
Other Mexico related Articles
Mariachi Music - Origins
Vicente Fernandez
Do you want to contribute to our site : submit your articles HERE
Warning: file(http://www.searchfeed.com/rd/feed/TextFeed.jsp?trackID=P2127485710&pID=54656&cat=Mexico&nl=5&page=1&excID=) [function.file]: failed to open stream: HTTP request failed! HTTP/1.1 404 Not Found
in /home/titanad/public_html/mexicovistas/datas/searchfeed.php on line 8
Mexico Specific links
Mexico News
Massive methamphetamine seizure in Mexico - BBC News
 BBC News | Massive methamphetamine seizure in Mexico BBC News Soldiers found the synthetic drug, thought to be the largest amount ever seized in Mexico, at a ranch after a tip-off by a local. The production of methamphetamine is on the rise in Mexico, with the powerful Sinaloa cartel smuggling huge amounts into ... Mexican army finds 15 tons of pure methamphetamine Mexican troops make huge seizure of 15 tons of pure methamphetamine in ... Found in Mexico: 15 tons of meth, 15 more bodies |
Mississippi Bill Changes Name of 'Gulf of Mexico' to 'Gulf of America' - Fox News
 News10.net | Mississippi Bill Changes Name of 'Gulf of Mexico' to 'Gulf of America' Fox News Steve Holland, a Democrat, has introduced a bill calling for the part of the Gulf of Mexico that is bordered by Mississippi to be renamed the “Gulf of America.” The measure, known as HB 150 and introduced to the state House Marine Resources Committee, ... 'Gulf Of America' Would Replace 'Gulf Of Mexico' In Bill From Mississippi ... Call It 'Gulf Of America,' Not Gulf Of Mexico, Lawmaker Says In Bit Of Satire Recommended: Gulf of Mexico? Try 'Gulf of America' |
Mexico City modern metro meets ancient Aztec life - CBS News
Mexico City modern metro meets ancient Aztec life CBS News (AP) MEXICO CITY — After two hours' grueling drive southeast from the center of Mexico City, through paralyzing traffic jams and clouds of throat-burning smog, the bleached-white haze of air pollution gives way to pale-blue sky. |
Ex-'Survivor' Producer Extradited to Mexico in Wife's Murder - WSBT-TV
 WSBT-TV | Ex-'Survivor' Producer Extradited to Mexico in Wife's Murder WSBT-TV LOS ANGELES (KTLA) -- Former 'Survivor' producer Bruce Beresford-Redman, who is accused of killing his wife Monica in Cancun, has been extradited from Los Angeles to Mexico to stand trial. With his hands cuffed and ankles shackled, Beresford-Redman was ... Lawyers: Reality TV producer hopes to avoid trial Former 'Survivor' producer lands in Mexico to face murder charges Bruce Beresford-Redman: Former Survivor producer arrives in Mexico to stand ... |
Pre-Hispanic Ruins Found in Mexico - Fox News
 Boston.com | Pre-Hispanic Ruins Found in Mexico Fox News The remnants being uncovered in the hills east of Mexico City at a spot known as Amecameca are from an ancient neighborhood — a home to regular folks. Print Email Share Comments Recommend Tweet It's no Chichen Itza. But the nondescript ancient home ... Mexico road project sets up fight over ruins Mexican experts excited to find ancient home ruins |
